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How to Choose Your First Sex Doll: Size, Material and Budget

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Short answer: decide on size first, then material, then budget. A 157cm / 5ft 2in or 160cm / 5ft 3in doll, at 28–33 kg, is the easiest to lift, dress and store. Full TPE feels softest and costs least, from £719. A silicone head gives a more lifelike face, from £1,039. Then check her measurements, weight and box size, and choose any factory add-ons before you order.

1. What size sex doll should I choose?

Height matters less than you might think. Weight and storage space are what you'll notice every day.

Size Weight Good to know
Petite, 157cm / 5ft 2in 28–30 kg Lightest and easiest to handle, B–C cup
Petite, 158cm / 5ft 2in 40–43 kg Full H-cup curves on a shorter frame
Mid, 160–165cm / 5ft 3in–5ft 5in 33–37 kg A natural in-between size, C–E cup
Curvy, 162cm / 5ft 4in 50 kg J cup, our heaviest dolls
Tall, 170cm / 5ft 7in 37–46 kg Longer legs, C, D or G cup

See how heavy a sex doll is for every height.

2. What cup size should I choose?

Our dolls range from B to J cup. A larger bust adds weight, so a 158cm / 5ft 2in H-cup is heavier than a 170cm / 5ft 7in D-cup. For a softer, more natural bounce, gel-filled breasts are available as a £129 add-on.

3. TPE or silicone head?

  • Full TPE is softer and squishier, with more jiggle, and costs less. It needs a light dusting of cornstarch after washing and can pick up dye from dark fabrics.
  • A silicone head on a TPE body gives you a firmer, more detailed and more stain-resistant face, with the same soft body.

Compare them in detail: TPE vs silicone, and are hybrid dolls worth it?

4. How much should I spend?

Full TPE dolls cost £719 to £999 and silicone-head dolls £1,039 to £1,199, with free delivery to the UK and EU. Our sex doll price guide breaks down what you get at each price.

5. Which add-ons are worth it?

Add-ons are fitted at the factory, so decide before you order. The ones that change the experience most:

  • Constant-temperature heating (£149): warms the body and lower body to skin temperature, taking away the room-temperature chill.
  • Moaning + voice (£199) or smart voice (£179): she responds with sound when you touch her.
  • Standing function (£79): reinforced soles and support points so she can stand for display, dressing and posing.
  • Gel-filled breasts (£129) and realistic skin texture (£149): extra realism to the touch and the eye.

All ten are on our add-ons page.

6. Where will you keep her?

Plan for a delivery box of 140 to 160 cm, and a place to store her lying flat or hanging, away from direct sunlight, radiators and dark, dyed fabrics, which can stain TPE. A lockable wardrobe or a long storage box under the bed both work well.

7. In stock or pre-order?

A red lamp means the doll is in stock and dispatches within 2 to 4 working days. An amber lamp means you can reserve her now: she ships from the next consignment, and we email you a delivery date. Add-ons add production time either way. See in-stock sex dolls or pre-order sex dolls.

Checklist before you buy

  1. A height and weight you can comfortably lift.
  2. Bust, waist and hip measurements you like.
  3. Full TPE or a silicone head.
  4. The box size, and a spot to store her.
  5. Any add-ons, chosen before you order.
  6. A delivery address where a large, plain parcel can be received.

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